A Shower of Love: Old family traditions help new moms in New Orleans tap into community care

Alexis Simms documents a family member's recent baby shower and reflects on the importance of community care in motherhood.

A Shower of Love: Old family traditions help new moms in New Orleans tap into community care
Khajia and Keith Washington receiving gifts at their baby shower (Photo provided by Alexis Simms)

Behind This Story

This article is part of a Lede New Orleans reporting project exploring stories, information and resources around Black motherhood and maternal health in New Orleans. The series is being produced by the Spring 2023 Lede New Orleans Community Reporting Fellows. Have a tip for them? Email ledeneworleans@gmail.com with the subject line "Black Maternal Health."

By Alexis Simms

Why are baby showers such a big deal? Duh! Because raising a tiny human is tough. Baby showers are not just a one-time party for the expecting parents. A baby shower is meant to celebrate and aid the future child and family.

Here in New Orleans, you'll see multiple families bonded together by the event, the dances of rambunctious children, the loud music and good food. The joy of childbirth starts with a party filled with loved ones. We have nothing to fear with found community.

Follow Community Reporting Fellow Alexis Simms as she documents her big cousin's baby shower and learns how vital it is to facilitate a community of care for raising a child.

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Alexis Simms is a script-writer and creative from New Orleans. Simms, 22, has worked as a production assistant in the film industry and as a Level Up Community Fellow for the Black Film Festival New Orleans part of the Filmmaker Collective.

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